Communication

Ask yourself these questions everyday

Have you ever noticed that the quality of your day is often determined by the questions you ask yourself?   Not the questions other people ask you. The ones running

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Appreciation

The Leadership Habit People Remember Most

I really love getting emails out of the blue, from people I do and do not know who have been impacted by my work.   I’ll never forget when a

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people talking

How to Get (and Keep) a Conversation Going

Conversations don’t fail because we have nothing to say. They often stall because we ask questions that accidentally shut them down.   Think about how often we ask questions that

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Feedback

How To Offer Unsolicited Feedback

There have been many times when people have come up to me after a talk to tell me what they got out of it, how much the content resonated, and

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Listening

What Kind of Listener Are You?

If communication is the foundation of every relationship, then listening is the part most of us overestimate.   We think we’re good at it. We nod. We make eye contact.

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Being Interrupted

Being interrupted, dismissed, or diminished? Try these 4 strategies.

Those of you who’ve seen me in person know that I’m not the tallest person. So not surprising that a reader reached out with this problem:   I’m a stereotypical

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Disagreement

Disagreement Doesn’t Have to Mean Disconnection

My clients inspire me. They also laugh at me because I get excited when I come up with something that will not only help them but is a great model

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Small Talk

When Small Talk Falls Flat: How to Create Real Conversations

Small talk is often where conversation begins — but it’s not where connection lives.   You’ve likely been there: you run into a colleague, client, or peer. You exchange pleasantries.

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Listening

What “Silent and “Listen” Can Teach Us About Leadership

Have you ever noticed that the words “silent” and “listen” are made up of the exact same letters?   I stumbled across this little linguistic coincidence recently, and it stopped

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